Wednesday, November 6, 2013

Will Smith, Jada Pinkett Smith Are "Great" Despite New Cheating Rumor With His Costar Margot Robbie

No broken marriage here! Newly surfaced photos of Will Smith getting mighty close (and partially nude) with his young Focus costar Margot Robbie have sparked rumors that the actor has been cheating on his wife of 16 years Jada Pinkett Smith. However, sources reveal to Us Weekly that everything is still intact in the Smith household.

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"They're not hooking up," a source tells Us of Smith, 45, and the blonde Australian actress, 23.
The rumors began after the costars took advantage of a photo booth that was available to them during the film's wrap party. "That was a photo booth on set that the producers got for everyone," a second insider explains to Us. "It was the last day of filming and everyone was taking pictures. They were just goofing around. Will is just like that. There's nothing more to it."
Will Smith, Jada Pinkett Smith Are "Great" Despite New Cheating Rumor With His Costar Margot Robbie
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As for his relationship with Pinkett Smith, the actor's new friendship with Robbie hasn't affected his marriage at all. "Everything with them is great," the second source adds.

The 42-year-old mother of Willow and Jaden Smith was last spotted out at the Make Equality Reality event honoring director Joss Whedon on Nov 4. During the event, the actress showed off a drastic new hairstyle with both sides of her head shaved. 

The Hollywood A-list couple may be going strong, but Pinkett Smith did share a cryptic message via her personal Facebook page on Nov. 3. "We should never have the expectation to not make mistakes, we should only have the expectation to learn from them," she wrote.

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This past July, she also shared that it would take a lot to "abandon" her famous husband. "I have been affected by gossip and I know people who have been, too. I've seen marriages destroyed by gossip. It is cruel," Pinkett Smith previously said to Redbook magazine. "At the end of the day, all that matters is: Do you love what you see when you look in the mirror? That is it, baby."

She added: "What is the thing that Will could do to make me not love him? That would make me abandon him? I can't think of one. I'm sorry. Except if he did something bad to the kids -- now we've got a problem."


Thursday, March 14, 2013

How To Win Love Back

If you are serious about answering the question how to win love back, you need to go and get a copy of The Magic Of Making Up. In this book, Mr Jackson will explain to you the various reasons why we fall out of love with our partners.  More importantly he shows you the techniques you can employ to get your groove back.  It is never too late to try to rediscover the passion and love you felt for your ex partner.  From this book you will learn how to communicate properly.

He will go through certain things like when you are trying to sort out a problem you should always use sentences starting with I rather than you.  "I feel hurt when you come home late from work" is a lot better than "you are always late home from work".  The first is explaining how you feel and should lead to a discussion about whether the working late can be fixed and if not, how you can work around it.  But the second sounds like an attack and if you deliver it just as the person walks through the door after a long day, it is easy to see how it can escalate into an argument.

Often we say things in the heat of the moment that either aren't true or are an exaggeration of how we are really feeling.  An example would be when you are fed up with your partner but you tell them you hate them. You don't really hate them as a person but perhaps their behavior is a problem. When you are in the middle of a relationship that isn't working as well as it could, it is very easy to get caught up in a cycle of blame. You hold the other person responsible for everything that is going wrong. This isn't fair nor is it likely to be true.  All too often, it is both parties that are causing the problems.  Unfortunately one or other of you will have to be brave enough to take a stand and try and sort it out.  Leaving it to fester will lead to the end of your partnership and often this is exactly what happens.

When you have already split up and are trying to win your lover back, you need to go back over the last few months or even year of your relationship and see what went wrong. Ask your ex to meet up with you and be honest about your reasons. Don't expect them to read your mind and know that you want to rekindle the love affair.  Also don't expect miracles either. You didn't break up overnight so you are unlikely to be able to fix all your problems overnight either.  But given the right attitude and some good luck and great advice, you should soon know how to win love back and be happy again.  What have you got to lose?  A little bit of pride is a small price to pay to get your lover back now isn't it?

Tuesday, March 5, 2013

How To Develop The Basic Skills To Get A Boyfriend Qucikly

I love you -I  need you- please be All mine!!

Did you know it takes a little luck and skills to get a boyfriend? If you're like I was, a little shy and a bit of a wallflower, you have felt the hurt and pain because you were ignored by a boy or man you really liked. And chances are your peers, may have laughed a little, just because you didn't have the necessary skills to develop a relationship with this person.

Now here is some good news, it's really not difficult to develop the knowledge to stop being a wallflower and so shy that men don't pay any attention to you. The fact is once you have acquired the basic skills, you will realize how simple it is. A little motivation and a few ideas should be able put you on the right track.

Now before we get into this discussion in full, please understand I'm not trying to beat you down nor the men that have ignored you. Because there is a good chance you both have to shoulder a little of the blame. You because you haven't taken the time nor the interest to develop your skills and the men because they don't take the time to see you for who you really are.

Your close friends and family really know you are a caring and giving person, underneath your shyness. However, unfortunately many men only go by the first impression, and they often times interpret shyness as you being cold and unapproachable. But with practice you can quickly work around this problem.

Let's take a look at a few things you may need to think about.

* Body language

When meeting or talking with someone do you stand with your arms crossed in front of your chest? If you do chances are you are conveying an "unapproachable" attitude. In other words, 'don't invade my space and I have no interest in you' type of thing. Wow! That is a big turnoff to anyone, much less the man you are interested in.

What you should do when meeting someone is have your arms and hands down by your side or at least if you have them crossed do so below your waist. This indicates to the man or anyone, you are open and interested in them. Making a conscience decision to do this in all conversations and you will soon develop the habit of doing so unconsciously.

* Eye contact

It's well known that most shy people have difficulty in having direct eye contact. A great many men have been taught from when they were young boys, that you should maintain eye contact during conversations. Consequently, if you don't maintain eye contact, they feel you are ignoring them and have little if any interest in them at all. Therefore make a conscience decision to maintain eye contact as much as possible.

Keep doing this until it becomes an unconscious habit for you. Once you have reached the habit stage, it will be a major stepping stone to you being seen as open an approachable.

* Smile

Did you know a sincere smile, that not only shows on your lips, but travels to your eyes, will light up your whole face and body. It's true! When a person is smiling they convey a sense of confidence, trust and openness. And men love a beautiful smile. It always causes them to take a second look.

As you can see, with a little practice, you really can develop the skills to get a boyfriend quickly. Not only will you get the man of your dreams, you will be able to keep him.

Monday, February 25, 2013

5 Types of Love Letters to Write to a Boyfriend or Girlfriend

A love letter can be the perfect way to convey your emotions to the person that you care about. Unfortunately, writing this love letter can prove to be a difficult task. While some people can write down their emotions easily, others struggle with the idea of a love letter altogether. If you want to pen a love letter, here are five different types of love letters to write to a boyfriend or girlfriend.



Things Unsaid

The first type of love letter to consider is the love letter that holds all of the things that you do not say. This is the perfect love letter for those who are shy about your emotions. You can write down all of the positive things you see in your significant other and in your relationship. When you write down the things you never say, you open your lover up to a new side of your emotions. This is a powerful way to show your soul mate how much he means to you.

Things You Always Say

Another love letter to consider is a letter that simply consists of the things that you say on a normal basis. Putting these thoughts and words into a letter will give your sweetheart a simple reminder of your love, commitment and emotion. They can take the letter with them wherever they go, reminding themselves of the things they usually hear from you.

Poetry

If you are feeling creative, write a poem. You can easily write poems that convey all of the emotions that you feel for your one and only and for your relationship. A poem will show your sweetie that you care enough to take the time to craft something special for them.

Song Lyrics

If you enjoy music, consider writing song lyrics about your lover. You can write lyrics to a song that already exists, or create a brand new song. Either option will show your honey that you are thinking of them and will let them know exactly how you feel about them.

There are some relationships that thrive off of sarcasm and humor. If you have this kind of relationship, consider a humorous love letter. This love letter will still convey your emotions, but will do so in a way that your boyfriend will find enjoyable.

There are multiple approaches that you can take to the love letter-writing process. You simply need to think about the person that you are dating, and the kind of relationship that you have. Certain types of love letters will fit your relationship, while others will not. Take the time to consider what you want to say, and to find the correct way to say it. While it may take a little extra work to take these things into consideration, it will help you to know what love letters to write to a boyfriend or girlfriend.

4 Ways to Use Cute Quotes for your Boyfriend

If you are trying to think of interesting ways to make your boyfriend happy, consider the use of cute quotes. Cute quotes can be placed anywhere and can be used in nearly every situation. These quotes can be a great way to convey feelings and emotions. They can also be a great way to make your normal relationship talks more interesting, and more romantic. Here are 4 ways to use cute quotes for your boyfriend.

I MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH!..DO YOU FEEL ME?

Cards

A simple gift card can be the perfect way to use a cute quote. Find some of the best quotes that you can find and write them in the card. These quotes make the card more personalized, and can easily convey your thoughts and emotions.

You can also find cards that already have cute quotes on them. These cards are less personal, but will still be able to explain your feelings and emotions.

Scrapbooks

Scrapbooks are a simple and easy way to work cute quotes in to a gift. You can easily make a scrapbook for your boyfriend that features these quotes. Simple find quotes that are appropriate for your relationship, and for the pages of the scrapbook that you plan on making. The cute quotes take on a more serious and deeper meaning when they are paired with pictures from some of your favorite memories together.

Cute Notes

If you want to be somewhat spontaneous, grab some note cards or some post-it notes. Gather all of your favorite cute quotes, and write them on these notes. Then, place these notes in random places for your boyfriend to find. Hide them in places in his apartment or home when he is in a different room. These surprise quotes will take your boyfriend off guard, making them more interesting, more thoughtful, and more enjoyable.

Emails

A simple way to brighten up your boyfriend's day is to send them cute quotes through emails. You can send them one single email with multiple quotes, or you can send them one email a day with a different quote per day. This will help your boyfriend to think of you every day, but will also help to make each and every day a little more enjoyable. While it may take some effort to keep up with the cute quote emails over time, it will be worth it in the end.

Many people fail to realize that a simple hand-made card can be one of the best gifts that a boyfriend or girlfriend can receive. Personalized scrapbooks, notes, and emails can all make your boyfriend's or girlfriend's day. Take the time to find some of the best cute quotes for your boyfriend or girlfriend. When you find the right quote, and find the right way to deliver that quote, you will have found a strong way to connect with your significant other.

Friday, February 22, 2013

4 Reasons to Avoid Boyfriend-Girlfriend Quizzes

There are a lot of quizzes on the Internet that aim to analyze your relationship. They want to tell you how compatible you are with your boyfriend, and they want to tell you how good of a boyfriend or girlfriend you have. Some quizzes even aim to tell you whether or not your significant other is cheating on you. These quizzes cause nothing but problems and issues in relationships, and should be avoided.

STOP! avoid boyfriend/girlfriend quizzes.....


Here are 4 major reasons to avoid boyfriend/girlfriend quizzes.

They're Making you Paranoid

You may not realize it, but these quizzes may actually be making you paranoid, as far as your relationship is concerned. The quizzes will give you advice that could cause you to question the merits of your significant other, and of your relationship. Unfortunately, many of these quizzes make these assertions without any proof. You may start to believe that your relationship isn't as good as it could be simply because of bad advice from an online quiz.

They're Too General

These types of quizzes are far too general. They ask broad, sweeping questions that do not actually indicate anything, positive or negative. Their generalizations could hurt your views of your relationship, and for no good reason.

Relationships are Unique

It is important to understand that each and every relationship is unique. Your connection and interactions with your boyfriend or girlfriend are different than any other connection you will have. Relationships are unique, and should be viewed and analyzed as such. When you rely on a quiz that is full of generalization, you rely on something that is not taking your relationship into account. Your relationship is too unique to be thrown in with simple relationship generalizations.

It Can Lower your Trust

Many will find that online quizzes can actually lower their trust, causing multiple problems in their relationship. If you start to see quizzes that talk about cheating boyfriends or girlfriends, you may begin to question the loyalty in your own relationship. Suddenly, problems that do not even exist are being brought up. You should trust that you understand your boyfriend or girlfriend, and that they are being open and honest with you. If you truly believe these things, you will find little to no need for these types of quizzes or tests.

You may turn to boyfriend/girlfriend quizzes for advice for your relationship. These quizzes should actually be the last place that you would look for relationship advice. It is ok to be confused about your relationship; simply talk to family and friends about your relationship and how you feel about your significant other. The words of advice and encouragement that they can provide will be more thoughtful, personalized, and realistic than any advice you would receive from these types of quizzes.Click Here!

Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Coping With A Relationship Break Up May Be Easier Than You Think

Coping with a relationship break up is one of the hardest things that most people find themselves forced to do but it is also a very common experience so luckily you can find a lot of good advice out there. what works for someone else may not work for you but just seeing other people that have gone through the same pain and survived can be reassuring.


Heart-Broken


The first thing that you need to do is accept that the relationship has indeed failed. . .at least for now. While there is a possibility of picking up the pieces again later on, for now, you shouldn't be thinking about that. Instead, do not try to contact your ex if at all possible. Many split couples have kids involved so you will have to have some contact for their sake. But keep it to a minimum.

Once you've accepted the fact that you are really on your own now, you need to make sure that you are focusing on yourself. Take time to do those things that you never had time for while you were together. While it's important to go out with friends or family, you also want to spend some time alone. Reflect on your past relationship and how the break-up evolved. It is really never just the fault of one person in the partnership. Both parties contribute to a split.

Making sure that you take care of yourself is a huge part of coping with a relationship break up. You definitely should be eating the right foods, exercising and getting enough sleep. Try to stick to a balanced diet with lots of fruit, vegetables and fiber. Exercising does not have to be extremely rigorous but many people find that a good workout really helps them get all their stress and anger out. It also increases endorphins in your body which make you feel better. If you dread exercising, just go for a walk every day. Pick some form of activity that you can do consistently. Finally, getting the right amount of sleep is crucial. Well-rested people look better and feel better. Those who lack in sleep look worn out,  and feel edgy, hungrier and depressed.

When you are taking care of yourself, your self-esteem increases and you are more attractive to others. Once you are feeling more confident, you can reassess your situation and ask yourself if you think it's worth it to try to mend your relationship. Some people decide that it's not. Others will give it a try and with their new and improved self-esteem, your odds are good although of course, a lot depends on the other person.

Coping with a relationship break up has a lot to do with mending your soul and spirit. If you can stick to a plan and rely on friends and family to help you out, you will find yourself at the end of the tunnel.

Sunday, February 17, 2013

Free Help Getting Back An Ex Boyfriend Can Be Better than What Mom Said

Are you looking for free help getting back an ex boyfriend? Sometimes relying on the advice of family and friends isn't the ideal solution. Although they are often well-meaning, they may not be telling you what you really need to hear. So it can help to get the opinion of someone else who is an expert in relationships or even just someone who is impartial to your personal situation.

Free Help Is Essential To Getting Back an Ex!!



You can find a lot of free help getting back an ex boyfriend on the internet. Some of this is in forums or other online venues where girls or women like you share their stories on how they won back their guy. Some can be in the form of more official and professional advice. Either way, you will find that many people will advise you to take a step back from the relationship for a while. Getting back your ex boyfriend can become all-consuming but you shouldn't let it be.

Why? Well, if for nothing else, because the more obsessed you are with getting your boyfriend back, the more reluctant he will be to come back to you. It's just human nature. If you have made it loud and clear that your only objective is to win him back, you're no longer appealing in his eyes.

Instead, you need to keep busy and do not contact your ex boyfriend. What you need to be doing is trying to improve yourself both on the inside and out. Now that you are single, you have more time to pamper yourself and you may even have more money to spend on yourself.

First of all, make sure that you are eating a healthy, balanced diet which is good for your body, your skin and your overall appearance. If you've slacked off on physical activity because of your current state of mind, it's time to start exercising once again. You may want to get a workout buddy to make sure that you stick to your routine.

Even if you are not in the mood to go out with friends or family, force yourself to do so. But don't get carried away don't stay out too late every night. Your beauty sleep is just as, if not more, important than healthy foods and exercise. When you are well-rested you will tend to see everything in a better light.

This phase may take some time and you will most likely take two steps forward and one step back as you go along. This is normal so don't worry if you have some bad days. But make sure that you maintain your pact with yourself: no contact with your ex.

Once you start to feel and look better, you will even be in a position to ask yourself whether you really want to get your ex back. If so, then you are ready for the next step in this free help getting back an ex boyfriend.

Thursday, February 14, 2013

Five Steps to Get Back Together With Your Ex Without A War

After a breakup has taken place, it's very common for at least one of the parties to want to win back the other. It may seem like a difficult task, depending on the circumstances, but in general, you can follow five rules to get back together with your ex.

Rules To Get Back Together With Your Ex



1. Bring your focus back to yourself. You're probably so consumed with how you can get your ex back, you've forgotten to do one of the most essential things in order to increase your chances. You've got to take care of yourself. Make sure that you are eating right, exercising and getting enough sleep. Take time to go out with friends and family. Join new activities. Do what you need to do to restore your inner balance and to keep your mind off your ex for a while. This will increase your self-confidence and self-esteem and make you more attractive.

2. Let your "new" self be revealed. If you've done the first step right, you are now feeling better both inside and out. In reality, the "new you" is really probably at least partly the "old you" that was hidden because of the emotional stress you took on during the breakup. It's important to remember that  change is a part of life and plays a role in any relationship as well. When you embrace change, rather than fighting it off, you can reach your goals much faster and with fewer obstacles.

3. Be flexible. If you haven't yet learned this, you need to compromise in any relationship and compromising is a key that could determine whether you will get back together with your ex or not. If you don't have a willingness to compromise, you have a tough road ahead of you in any situation.

4. Forgive. Some people find this difficult because they are convinced that the other person is to blame. In relationships, both partners contribute to a break-up. Even when one person cheats on the other, while the person who has been cheated on is not necessarily to blame, there are some reasons that led the other person to cheat. Or if he/she is just unfaithful by nature, then you should not be trying to work out a relationship anyway. Maybe you are the person who did the cheating. In this case, you hope that the other person can forgive you and you also should forgive yourself in order to move on. Because the fact of the matter is, you cannot change the past. Putting the past into perspective when you deal with forgiveness is important. Remember that forgiving is not the same thing as forgetting. Remembering your mistakes can allow you to prevent them from happening in the future.


5. Develop a plan to get back together with your ex. You can do this on your own or with the help of a counselor or friend. Click Here!

Wednesday, February 13, 2013

My Ex Wants To Get Back Together Are You Kidding Me

My ex wants to get back together? Is this your incredulous reaction when your ex calls you back after months of no contact? Perhaps he/she is the one who broke up with you or maybe you instigated the split. Either way, it might be somewhat of a surprise to have this person show up in your life again. And, if nothing else, it gets you thinking. . . what should you do?

Obviously, it all depends on the situation and circumstances and, especially, what state of mind you are in right now.

If your ex is the one that broke up with you and you've just finally started to settle into your new life without him/her, you might be temped to just tell him/her to leave you alone. This is perfectly natural and you'll probably feel good about it. Keep in mind that this might induce your ex to try even harder. 


So Your Ex Boo Wants You Back!!...


If you're still feeling the pain of your split and you still miss your ex, you may be relieved to have him/her asking you back. But be careful and tread slow here. Even if you feel like saying "Yes!" immediately, you might want to just ask him/her to call you back in a couple of days so you can think about it. If he/she does call you back, then they've earned a point. Try asking for a few more days. See how far it gets you and how far you want to take it.

But it's a good way to superficially test the sincerity of your ex. If you were the one who did the breaking up, you've got a whole different attitude and your feelings will probably be more readable; since you most likely went through them in your mind before breaking up.

Chances are that his/her first thought when your ex wants to get back together is that you will forgive him/her for breaking up with you in the first place or for causing you to want to break up. If you do plan to take him/her up on the offer, you need to forgive him/her in order to go on. Then, make sure that you know clearly and precisely what you want out of the relationship. And remember that you now are in the position to ask what you want and to also stipulate what you don't. Talk about it and see how your ex reacts.

Of course when you do decide to give the relationship a try, you also need to give your ex what he/she wants as well. Ask your ex to be specific about what he/she needs from you and then evaluate how well you will be able to fill them. Is there something that you just cannot do? If so, it's probably better to let the relationship go once again. Otherwise, you will be soon headed for your second break-up.

Hopefully this has helped you in your "my ex wants to get back together" situation. Click Here!